Shariah Rules about Divorce and Separation
3 Ways of Reconciliation
If, for some reason the relations between the husband and wife become strained and the wife continues her disobedience then the husband is advised to follow these methods
1. First, the husband should advise the wife. 2 If it does not work, then the husband should separate the wife's bed i.e. the husband should stop having sexual intercourse with the wife.
3. The husband should admonish them and beat them lightly.
Allah Ta'ala says in the Holy Quran, Surah an Nisa -34, "And for those women about whom you have the fear of disloyalty, admonish them, sleep separately from them and may give them a light beating.”